Birth -: Anatomy Of Love And Sex -1981-

This had direct implications for the couple’s sexual relationship. The 1981 sex therapists noted that couples who birthed together (with the father as a calm, informed coach) reported re-establishing intercourse faster than those from whom the father was excluded. The shared trauma-to-triumph of birth became a form of "limbic bonding" that deepened marital sex. In the anatomy of love, the breast is the most polyvalent organ. In 1981, the debate over breastfeeding was at its most politicized (the first WHO code on marketing breast-milk substitutes was adopted that year). But the anatomy was clear.

To understand birth is to understand sex. To heal birth trauma is to heal sexual trauma. To celebrate the anatomy of love is to honor the uterus that contracts, the cervix that opens, the vagina that stretches, the perineum that yields, and the breast that nourishes. Birth - Anatomy of Love and Sex -1981-

Second, the American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology was publishing longitudinal data on "bonding"—a term coined just five years earlier by Klaus and Kennell. By 1981, the evidence was irrefutable: the first hour after birth (the "sensitive period") was a critical window for lifelong attachment. This had direct implications for the couple’s sexual

The caesarean section rate in the US was rising (hitting nearly 18% by 1981, up from 5% in 1970). Critics argued that the supine position (lying on the back, which compresses the sacrum and narrows the pelvic outlet) was not just bad obstetrics but bad sex. You cannot make love or birth a baby effectively lying flat on your back with your legs in stirrups. In the anatomy of love, the breast is