When guilt arises, ask yourself: Whose voice is this? My mother’s? A magazine’s? A fitness influencer’s? Separate their voice from your own. External resistance: Comments from others People will ask: "Have you gained weight?" "Are you sure you should eat that?" "You look so much better thinner."
A coworked brings donuts. Old Maya would have white-knuckled resistance or binged in secret. New Maya takes one, enjoys every bite, and moves on. One donut is just a donut. It is not a moral failure. miss+teens+crimea+naturist+pageant+2008l
She feels frustrated when a Zoom call runs long. She notices tension in her neck. Instead of berating herself, she takes five minutes to stretch and breathe. For lunch, she packed a leftover burrito bowl. She eats until she is satisfied and stops. She does not calculate "points." When guilt arises, ask yourself: Whose voice is this