Yes, physical beauty (cun) gets the first swipe right. But for a relationship to survive, it requires cara (manners), iman (faith), and komunikasi (communication).
If you are a Malay man pursuing a "cun" girl, remember: She is tired of being seen as an object. She wants a partner who sees the beauty in her ambition, her flaws, and her dreams of surga (heaven), not just her Instagram feed.
And to the "Awek Melayu Cun" reading this: You are allowed to have standards. You are allowed to say "no." And you are allowed to wait for the man who treats you like a queen before the ring is on your finger.
What are your thoughts on dating in the Malay community? Share your opinions responsibly in the comments below.